Shro,
There is another mindset about children.
its about fate. Sometimes when you do want children, you arent
gifted with any, even if either would be parents are healthy and
able to have children.
When you do not want children, you have the luck to have children
and so you have them.
And there is those, who by fate, either by chance meeting, almost
like 'clicked' can be parents and children.
I am looking for that click either with a person that can produce
that child with me, or that click, that says I could be a suitable
parent for that child.